The Hot Young Widows Club exists as a Secret Facebook Group (with the occasional meetup between members in the same cities, or as we's cool).


  • You need to include the email address that you use to log in to Facebook. We will use that email address to invite you to the group.

  • You will need to submit proof of death for your person through a link to an obituary, picture of death notice, etc. Without this, your application cannot be processed.

  • Once we have reviewed your application and verified the proof of death to protect our members from scammers, you will be emailed an invitation to join the HYWC. If you don’t see the invite, check your Spam box in your email account. If it isn’t there, make sure you submitted proof of death with your application. If you didn’t, re-apply. If you did all this and still see no invite within a couple of weeks, please email us to let us know.

  • Once you’ve accepted the invite to the HYWC, we’ll get you added to one of our HYWC “main groups.” These are Secret Facebook groups, which means that no one who is not a member can see who the members are.  

  • We also have sub-groups available according to specific locations or other identifiers or interests. You can be added to the HYWC sub groups as well—consult the secret HYWC Facebook group for instructions. The sub-groups are also secret groups.

  • Invites may not arrive right away, because we're only human. We are so sorry to have you in this club, and so so glad to be here for you. 

    Thank you, NORA and MOE

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If you do not have a link to an obituary or death notice, you may send a picture of the Death Certificate to:

Please black out the social security number and any other confidential information before you send it. Also include your Name and your email address.